October 8, 2011

Time flies

My sweetie pie and I are celebrating our 20 year anniversary this weekend. Am a little stunned at how fast time flies.

So 20 years years later, here are some of my lessons learned, in no particular order:
  • Let go of having to be right.
  • Relationships are all about compromise.
  • Fight for what is really important and let go of the rest.
  • Don't sweat the small stuff.
  • Me, you and us are equally important.
  • Don't get joined at the hip. Have your own interests, friends, etc.
  • Realize that no one person can meet all your needs. Heck even I'm not perfect!
  • It is essential to share common values.
  • Life is easier if you share some goals and interests.
  • Learn how to fight. And make up.
  • Communicate. Listen. Support.
  • A sense of humor can save the day.
  • Without trust you got nothing.
  • Laugh. Play. Learn. Grow.
  • Love. Each other and yourself.
Happy versary Babes. 82.

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